My Fiancée Does Not Want To Change Her Last Name, Is This Normal?

Today’s society means that Brides are increasingly opting to keep their second names. Do not worry if your bride-to-be is considering taking the same approach. Yes, the changing of the bride’s second name is traditionally considered a symbol of love and commitment to her partner, but if your partner feels that she does not want to do this, it definitely does not mean the opposite.
Recent changes in time mean that brides have been able to strive forward in the business world. The alteration of a second name can often mean that women lose their status in the work environment, especially if they have built up a good reputation under their maiden name. It is only natural that they would want to continue to be known by this name.

 
If you are adamant that you would like her to somehow take your name, why not talk to her about double barrelling both or you surnames. This is becoming a very popular idea for professional couples. Then, as a couple you can decide together. It is quite unusual for the bride to add the groom’s surname to hers, but if that is what you reach in compromise then it really does not matter.
At the end of the day it is important that you both reach a compromise that you are happy with. Besides, it is only a name. Getting married signifies that you both want to be together forever, so surely the decision over last names is a minor one.

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