Inviting the right guests to your wedding
Save the date cards need to be sent out as early as possible. But knowing who to invite and who to leave off your wedding invitation list, is a really stressful task.
The aim is to have all your important friends and family members there but to not offend anyone who feels that they should have been invited. This is not as easy as it sounds.
You and your partner should set a day aside to sit down and create an organised list of people who you want to invite to your wedding. You should begin the list with your immediate family members and your close mutual friends.
Once you have these people listed, you need to break the remaining guests down into groups. For example, make a list of work colleagues, a list of children and a list of ex partners.
Once you start to get an idea of how many of these you feel you can invite, you will have a much clearer idea of how your wedding day will be.
The key to creating the perfect invitation list is by being fairly ruthless in the final stages. Always remember that this is your day and you shouldn’t feel like you need to invite people if you don’t want them there.
Once you have your perfect list of wedding guests, you can start sending out the save the date cards. Don’t forget to include the wedding RSVP cards though so you know who will be attending.

